Mechanics and Meaning

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Grief.

I suspect this is an emotion with which we are all familiar.  It connects to longing and sorrow like Siamese siblings sharing bodies.

Evidently I am able to conjure it at a moment’s notice, on a whim.

How we initiate suffering.  Designate and signify it.

  • Creating separations and distinctions in order to perceive
  • Attempting to maintain stability, regularity, balance and order
  • Envisioning opportunities and instinctively avoiding threats (real or imagined)

While what we have collectively learned about our world, its fluidity of matter and energy, its processes – subatomic to galaxian – would seem to infer that

  • Everything is connected
  • Everything keeps changing
  • Opportunities routinely lose their luster or remain unfulfilled and most true threats are inescapable (aging, death, loss, etc.)

Metabolizing Change

“Grief,” “longing,” “sorrow” and the like seem often to highlight where triggered survival mechanisms (boundaries, maintenance of balance or stability, and bias toward perceiving dangers or threats) ratchet and crackle, kink and stumble in the flow of change.

I would like to open to the inferences.  Soothe and calm survival mechanisms, more effectively metabolize connectivities and change.  Participate in life’s process from smaller and larger perspectives of mechanics and meaning, measures and movements.

Flow

ideas stimulated by Rick Hanson, in – Hanson - Buddha's Brain

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3 thoughts on “Mechanics and Meaning

  1. One of the best articulations of grief and grieving i have ever read was in the book, Red Neck Blue Collar Atheist. It’s in the foreword of the book, starting at page nine. It’s so simply, so easy to read, and just so desperately true. If you get the chance, cast your eyes over it. Simply yet oh so beautifully written.

  2. thank you so much! What a difficult thing to write about! Of my favorite renditions is Lemony Snicket in the Series of Unfortunate Events: “It is useless for me to describe to you how terrible Violet, Klaus, and even Sunny felt in the time that followed. If you have ever lost someone very important to you, then you already know how it feels, and if you haven’t, you cannot possibly imagine it.”
    So thankful for the recommend John – I’ll find it!

"A word is a bridge thrown between myself and an other - a territory shared by both" - M. Bakhtin

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